Emma Watson speaks about HeForShe campaign

I just wrote a rather long post about pornography and the male gaze, in response to last week’s lecture, but when I came across this video earlier today, I figured I’d share it here. I’m mostly not going to comment, except to say that Emma Watson does better job than most at motivating the inclusion of men in the discussion of feminism.

Men, I would like to give this opportunity to extend your formal invitation. Gender equality is your issue, too. To date, I’ve seen my father’s role as a parent being valued less by society. I’ve seen young men suffering from illness, unable to ask for help for fear it will make them less of a man. I’ve seen men fragile and insecure by what constitutes male success. Men don’t have the benefits of equality, either.

We don’t want to talk about men being imprisoned by gender stereotypes but I can see that they are. When they are free, things will change for women as a natural consequence. If men don’t have to be aggressive, women won’t be compelled to be submissive. If men don’t need to control, women won’t have to be controlled.

Both men and women should feel free to be strong. It is time that we all see gender as a spectrum instead of two sets of opposing ideals. We should stop defining each other by what we are not and start defining ourselves by who we are. We can all be freer and this is what HeForShe is about. It’s about freedom. I want men to take up this mantle so their daughters, sisters and mothers can be free from prejudice but also so their sons have permission to be vulnerable and human, too and in doing so, be a more true and complete version of themselves.

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3 thoughts on “Emma Watson speaks about HeForShe campaign

  1. I haven’t had time to watch the full length of Emma Watson’s video yet, but from the excerpts I have heard, it sounds like a rational and great idea. Instead of asking for women to stand up and oppress men and reverse gender stereotypes, she is simply asking men to accept responsibility for gender inequality, and begin to make strides towards regressing it. It sounds like a great idea to me!

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